Examples: trans people can say the T slur, gay people can say the f slur, bi women and lesbians can say the d slur, neurodivergent people can say the r slur, etc. The "spaz" word being a slur is nothing more than more pathetic gate keeping tactics. The f word part tho, he is bi so he gets a pass. As in, you (the “trap”) are deceiving somebody else. "Matt Damon who works in Hollywood. Almost everyone can say the n word, but nowhere near that many would be justified in doing so. Faggot, often shortened to fag in American usage, is a term, usually a pejorative, used to refer to gay men. LGBT slang. But what she's doing is not a joke, she's saying it to hurt OP and she doesn't have the right to do that. The word has been used to hurt people no matter what their sexuality or gender identity is so everyone that is not cishet has the right. Posted by u/QueenCobra74739 - 1 vote and no comments. That's because communicating hate is kind of the purpose of a slur. I’ve definitely made a few jokes myself that I wouldn’t dare make if I weren’t openly bisexual. In practice, though, I RARELY EVER encounter bi/gay men who use the f-slur regularly. No, and you don't even need to say them, at all. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. I would say no, they aren’t. Personally I feel like slurs can be reclaimed by anyone who has been called it who is also a member of the demographic it is aimed at. He won the ability to say it in a random prize drawing organized by GLAAD in 1997, and since then he's lived happily in obscurity. I say it because I can and because I. And that word is primarily used as a slur against men who have sex with men. Reclaiming a slur isn’t “privilege to say it whenever I want”, it’s not letting it to define you and using it to describe your identity. Oh and just to make sure, if I can’t then don’t worry I won’t say it if that’s the case!. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Skye Schoenhoeft February 7, 2020 I was at a concert the other night. One's a vagina, the other's a penis. Bisexuals like women, they like women just as much as lesbians but they also like dudes just as much as gay people. I first heard the L-word on a podcast hosted by a sex columnist. I wouldn't say that being queer gives you the right to say the f-slur. The F slur on the other hand means a group of sticks or wood used in a fire, similar to kindling and that’s how gay people were executed, similar to burning someone at the steak like a witch or what have you. It don’t want it to be under my skin but it’s making me feel gross. The word 'faggot', 'fag' is commonly used as an insult towards gay/bisexual men and in general people from LGBTQ+ community. I’m with you, he sounds awful. If for instance you are openly gay, than it's much easier to. I'm not going to speak as a monolith, as the LGBTQ+ is made up of many different people and has a diversity of views. The fact that you think you are entitled to say it because you are bi is a serious indication you are a terrible person to justify saying a terrible thing. DemonicGirlcock • 3 yr. • 3 yr. This can either be through personal incidents (being called it), or even indirect incidents (seeing lots of hate. With the advent of queer theory and the launch of Queer as Folk, "queer" became used online as a more concise umbrella term than the full LGBT+ acronym (which, depending on who you ask, is. I’m not a gay man and it has been used against me. dykes know when they're among dykes, and i know who can call me a dyke. The replies were mixed. On one hand, bisexuals share a lot of similar experiences with gay and lesbian people. He came to that realization when he had a fan come up on stage and they sang that word in a song. i’m sure if i ever said the d slur in front of my friends, including lesbian friends, they prob wouldn’t mind. Like I don't think the f-slur belongs exclusively to cis gay/bi men and trans femmes. As a person who was frequently taunted for being gay as a kid growing up in Appalachia, who was himself called the "f-slur" too many times to count, you might be surprised to learn. idiot: HEY YOU. [deleted] • 10 mo. Soldier Adora finds a magic sword -- and her identity as legendary hero She-Ra. My opinion is that this is a slur nobody should be saying. bisexual dude here, in my experience (which is only my personal experience and isn’t representative of the whole of the bi population) i’ll say the f slur jokingly occasionally, but rarely and only in the company of other LGBT people who know i’m joking. There are 4 gay/bi people in our grade so there were 2 other people who didn’t give out f slur passes. The word 'faggot', 'fag' is commonly used as an insult towards gay/bisexual men and in general people from LGBTQ+ community. It is more of a broad slur against the LGBTQ as a whole because the people who called gay men the f slur had those same views against other types of queer people. Faggot is typically a highly disparaging epithet in use by homophobic people (often men) who hate and brutalize gay men. It doesn't matter if you're: a 14-year-old boy with an effeminate walk a 50-year-old man who likes to paint his nails or somebody who just likes dressing however the hell they want. I don’t get why people would think only gay men should be able to say it either. The f word part tho, he is bi so he gets a pass. If it's jeered at you from across the street by people using it as a noun, it's probably a slur. " people who can say this word: anyone who is mlm, nblm, etc transfems. Gay has been a term, to my knowledge, coined to be the entire community along with the F slur. The fact that you think you are entitled to say it because you are bi is a. So, I think it should be used on an individual basis. Bisexuals like women, they like women just as much as lesbians but they also like dudes just as much as gay people. I like to use it to say things like eg. I think like any slur, reclaimed or not, it should be used sensitively. assuming that men lose their masculinity by liking other men. It has been used in various languages since the early 20th century as a means by which members of the LGBTQ+ community identify themselves and speak in code with brevity and speed to others. Personally I don't say it at all becausse I just don't like the word, but what is your opinon on who should be able to say it?. Most of Carlin’s words seem less shocking today. When that song came out, it was a strong statement and rallying cry for all those that had that slur thrown their face every day. replacedlimb • 3 yr. For example, if you are a straight person, in no way should you ever consider using a homophobic slur. Matty Healy seems to claim a sort of genderqueerness (and tries to embody it whether it's true or not) and therefore we cannot clearly judge the authenticity of this claim, nor whether he reclaimed the f-slur or just misused it. What is biphobia? Biphobia is prejudice, fear or hatred directed toward bisexual people. Therefore, I'm queer, due to my bisexuality. However, you have to take into account that Bowie was at the time (and by some still is) recognized as a bi or queer man. But don't go around calling other mlm the f-word unless you know they're okay with it. I’ve definitely had that word used against me as a slur by openly bisexual women who only publicly dated men (basically as a way to say they were more attractive and feminine than me) and honestly those women imo gave up their opportunity to “reclaim” anything and have it be authentic when they used it. Gostaríamos de exibir a descriçãoaqui, mas o site que você está não nos permite. Remove it from your vocabulary. Bisexual people arent 50% gay 50% straight, cause that would mean they dont put their full attraction into a partner, that theres 50% missing in wlw relationship. I would say no, they aren’t. All slurs are bad, end of. Therefore, I'm queer, due to my bisexuality. Examples: trans people can say the T slur, gay people can say the f slur, bi women and lesbians can say the d slur, neurodivergent people can say the r slur, etc. That's because communicating hate is kind of the purpose of a slur. Go for it, I guess. But people can't keep saying him being half Latino means he can say the n word. You don’t often see lgbtq calling random people queer as an insult, black people calling random people the N word as an insult, mentally disabled people calling random people the R word as an insult. Well, honestly, it's quite simple. f4g is also an abbrevant from f4gg0t so don't use that either. I once read some Tumblr post that claimed the bundle of sticks were for burning because of gay. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Over summer, a tweet that simply repeated the words "bisexuals cant say the f or d slur" went viral, with over 11,000 RTs and over 24,000 likes. Just because a slur doesn't hurt you personally doesn't mean it won't hurt someone who was called that daily. im a wlw myself, so im very confused, google says no lol. One of the most disrespectful things a person can do is to call someone a derogatory term. There's a huge difference between "can brown people say the n word" and "should brown people say the n word". A/Sexuality: demi/gray somewhere on the spectrum. A lot of people know that it's a slur, but most don't know why it is and where it originated from. I don’t get why people would think only gay men should be able to say it either. I understand the slur was created to be used against gay men, but it has grown to be used against the whole lgbtq community. I said, 'I retire the f-slur!'. I know we understand the context with the use of the n word, but others might not. A young or recently out trans woman. It is very common for bisexual people to prefer one gender over another, and some say that this preference changes over time. Retrieved 2008-01-29. Some folks say gay men have the right to reclaim it since it's such a targeted slur, and some writers have used it that way, like Larry Kramer. So can you be banned for saying the n word or not some people tell me yes some now im confused Discussion Ive been told you can and cant say the n word I dont use slurs but I still find. Yes, sometimes it's used toward other queer people but its main meaning as a slur is about homosexual men. He sounds exactly like an edgy homophobic guy who realized he can’t get away with being a bigot around his gf, so he thinks he’s being real smart by claiming he’s LGBT so “it’s allowed. I wouldn't say that being queer gives you the right to say the f-slur. I said, 'I retire the f-slur!' I understood. I wouldn't say that being queer gives you the right to say the f-slur. (and for aro ace people they dont have a sexual orientation) if you are straight but demi romantic/ demisexual or aro/ ace or. " people who can say this word: anyone who is mlm, nblm, etc transfems. Queer as a Slur. bisexual dude here, in my experience (which is only my personal experience and isn’t representative of the whole of the bi population) i’ll say the f slur jokingly occasionally, but rarely and only in the company of other LGBT people who know i’m joking. I used to do everything I could to avoid being called a ‘faggot’. I quite like some of the other reclaimed slurs, though!. Who Can Say the F-Slur, and When is it Okay (please help me understand) Hey guys. By Variety. No, and you don't even need to say them, at all. Has been partly reclaimed by some women. All slurs are bad, end of. What is biphobia? Biphobia is prejudice, fear or hatred directed toward bisexual people. • 2 yr. Yeah, it’s a reclaimed slur. Technically non-binary identities fall under the trans umbrella. Yeah, I'm not going to say it in just curious. ^ * "webster. " Biphobia occurs both within and outside of the LGBTQ+ community. This kid said the f slur before he was given the pass. He uses the word queer because a lot of people have asked Matty if he is bisexual. Being LGBT doesn't inherently make you able to reclaim every LGBT slurs. Gostaríamos de exibir a descriçãoaqui, mas o site que você está não nos permite. The actual answer is that nobody really agrees on it. Back when there were no laws to protect gay people, they were hunted and murdered. 9% 158 votes · Voting has ended This question has been on my mind a lot for some reason Share to Likes (15) Like yeah, the slur is used against bisexuals, too. I used the f-slur the other day and I was. 84 votes · Voting has ended. 15 of these respondents stated that they do not believe out-group members can use queer in non-derogatory ways. No, the F-slur is for gay men and transfem to reclaim. [deleted] • 3 yr. That stands if: You’re in a so-called. • 3 yr. There's only one person who can use that word with no scrutiny whatsoever from the LGBT community. For starters, “language is limited,” they say. Trans people aren't targetted by it either. f4g is also an abbrevant from f4gg0t so don't use that either. In my opinion if that slur has been or can be used against you you’re allowed to say it. I would say that 'prick' implies that you're more of a maliciously or deliberately annoying/awful person, whereas 'twat' implies more bumbling or unthinking thoughtlessness/idiocy. The "spaz" word being a slur is nothing more than more pathetic gate keeping tactics. The reality is sad but true: "Faggot” is, and has often been, used to describe LGBTQ2S+ people negatively, particularly the feminine ones. People who have had it used against them can use it with other people who have had used against, if they have earned each other’s trust, and doing so brings them together in solidarity. But its also a scientific fact there are those who do not fit into binary nested categories, either. The only reclaimed slur I like is queer. Can someone please explain why Rep can swear (“F*!#”) but can’t say “tits” (or a host of other terms for the human body)?. In an article posted by the U. This comment section is confusing me. Well, racial slurs (and slurs in general) were literally used by other races to oppress minorities, it makes sense that white people cant say it. Even if most people in a community reclaim a slur, that doesn’t mean all of them are automatically okay with it. I personally believe that we can take back the power of the word, like the N word. Other folks say that you can never reclaim a slur and as such no one can use it. I hate how it is so normalized now for "lgbt" people my age to "jokingly" say slurs all the time. A lot of the time they were rolled up in rugs and lit on fire, while still alive. The fact that you think you are entitled to say it because you are bi is a serious indication you are a terrible person to justify saying a terrible thing. Get App. I'd say men and women who are into the same sex can reclaim it (whether bi or homo). I know some who have disowned Abel for that but the majority still doesn't seem to care. But when I'm alone, or with someone who is either 1000000% an ally or is queer and also uses the slur for themselves, then I'll say it a lot more liberally. It’s not worth letting my friend’s mouth get me banned. It’s like how some people argue that trans men shouldn’t use the t-slur but I’ve personally been called the t-slur by people who knew I was a trans man (I’m not comfortable using slurs and I don’t even like it when other trans people use the t-slur but they should be allowed to reclaim it), I understand the damage of the word and. Damon told The Sunday Times she had written him "a. Coming out in my native language is still incredibly difficult for me, because me saying "I'm gay" (in my native language) still kind of sounds like an insult to me and feels like I'm saying e. Some folks say gay men have the right to reclaim it since it's such a targeted slur, and some writers have used it that way, like Larry Kramer. Anyone who experances same-gender or sex attraction can. QBeanfuckery • 3 yr. Some say the f slur can be only said by mlm and some say that masculine presenting nonbinary ppl can say it but I don’t know, I definitely feel like I’m stepping over boundaries here so don’t take my comment wholeheartedly. The word 'faggot', 'fag' is commonly used as an insult towards gay/bisexual men and in general people from LGBTQ+ community. One of rhe guitarists, a man, (I'm unsure gis sexuality, so I'm not going to assume here,) said the f slur. Other folks say that you can never reclaim a slur and as such no one can use it. It also can be hard to know people's hardships. obviously if you're gay thats different. It’s like those people who say they can use racial slurs because they’re “2% black. What is biphobia? Biphobia is prejudice, fear or hatred directed toward bisexual people. Archived from the original on 2012-12-05. Aug 2, 2017 · 4. Some people are saying only gay guys, some are saying only gay and bi guys, and some are saying that everyone apart of the lgbt community can say it. It's historically been used as to specifically attack gay men **. He’s telling people that use the f slur that is similar to having someone who’s white use the n word is bad. You might be able to find alternative forms of the word, though. The K-word is taken, used as it was by the KKK against Jewish people. F-slur was a rude word to talk about gay stuff or feminine men, but the q-slur was what was used when someone gets bashed. I’ve seen people use that slur against lesbians and at this point in time it’s just a general slur against lgbt people so I. " people who can say this word: anyone who is mlm, nblm, etc transfems. The "spaz" word being a slur is nothing more than more pathetic gate keeping tactics. Regardless of how widely reclaimed a slur is, there are still people that word targets who don’t like hearing it and don’t want it used on them. I am bisexual (Omnisexual, if you want to be specific) and i feel like i can say it, but i'm not sure if that's okay with other people. the slur was originally targetted against guys who were considered "feminine" or dont fit in w stereotypical masculinity, e. It shouldn't be used by heterosexual people, as it's considered highly homophobic and disrespectful. Here's a reply I made that hopefully clarifies what I meant:. Yes, sometimes it's used toward other queer people but its main meaning as a slur is about homosexual men. And, yes, people may call themselves that, but it is either attention seekers/edgelord-equivalents or people reclaiming the word. When we take the word away from the people who used it to hurt us, we take away the word's. Faggot, often shortened to fag in American usage, is a term, usually a pejorative, used to refer to gay men. QBeanfuckery • 3 yr. F slur reclaiming. A tight-knit sub acting as a communal diary for young adults. Straight males or men, Tne living proof of this is from a guy called brewster on the internet, pretty much suck a dick is so offensive to straight guys that they would literally get into a fight or say the f word to other males which is absurd and its literally just another word for something bad to happen to them word. One of my favorite songs of his, “Nerds”, which helped me through a lot of rough times as an unpopular closeted teen in middle school, opens with the line “I’m a faggot, I’m a retard, I got a girls bag and a v card. You can say the f-slur to a person who has consented to it. by Helen Meriel Thomas ; photos. Don’t really agree with anyone saying it , I just see it as offensive there’s just no point. Obviously gay trans men who have been hurt by that slur have every right to reclaim it, as it's predominantly used against gay/achillean men. Many if not 99 percent of black people and every black person I have encountered in my life which is a lot and myself uses the n word. Remove it from your vocabulary. LGBT is still a popular term used to discuss gender and sexual minorities, but all GSRM are welcome beyond lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people who consent to participate in a safe space. Yes I agree & Lmao I’m a Brit and there’s two different pronunciations of that word when saying the F slur and cigarettes so we pull people up on using the F slur when referencing a cig. f4g is also an abbrevant from f4gg0t so don't use that either. • 3 yr. The following is a list of LGBT-related slurs that are, or have been, used as insinuations or allegations about lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender non-binary people, or to refer to them in a derogatory (that is, critical), pejorative (disapproving or contemptuous), or otherwise insulting manner. This question has been on my mind a lot for some reason. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Even if you are gay/trans, the person reviewing any reports may not know that, and you may end up banned anyway. Maybe calling you and a queer friend “a couple of f*gs”. A lot of people still see it as a slur. Other gay people say that "fag" should be reclaimed to take away its power. The fact that he even needed to make a response, shitpost or otherwise, shows how fucking pathetic some drama can be. “Someone can absolutely identify as Bi and a Dyke,” says McDaniel. that doesn’t mean. Business, Economics, and Finance. The f-slur is a slur used against feminine and gay/bisexual men (or just men don't fit in the toxic masculinity standards) If you are either a non-man or just a heterosexual person (or a hetero man) you can NOT reclaim the f-slur it is considered extremely homophobic. LGBT slang, LGBT speak, queer slang, or gay slang is a set of English slang lexicon used predominantly among LGBTQ+ people. but mainly these. Bisexuality is greedy (and being greedy is bad) Bisexuals are cheaters. I’ve definitely made a few jokes myself that I wouldn’t dare make if I weren’t openly bisexual. Bo Burnham’s Gay Slurs Made Fans Angry. Queer as a Slur. Can A Bi Or Pan Person Say The F Slur? 🏽rat 🏽 09/06/20. These people act like slurs have to be said. Basically my life motto right here, You can do anything you want, just accept the consequences. Is it ok when a Bisexual says the "F" slur? Curdo 09/23/20 Yeah you can say it 39. can aro/aces say the f-slur. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. No they can’t. id never use it to belittle someone. You might be able to find alternative forms of the word, though. During the same conversation, Burnham further recalled how fans got angry with him for using the 'f-slur' referring to gay men in his show. There are tons of bisexual men who have sadly been on the receiving end of an f-slur before. To reclaim the slur and reduce its ability to hurt is a good thing, but it has to be tempered by compassion for those around. To reclaim the slur and reduce its ability to hurt is a good thing, but it has to be tempered by compassion for those around. Personally, I feel that you should only ever use a slur if you have personally had it used against you by bigots in the past. People who have had it used against them can use it with other people who have had used against, if they have earned each other’s trust, and doing so brings them together in solidarity. However, many people find the term transsexual outdated. Well, definitely, too little. idiot: HEY YOU. Well, racial slurs (and slurs in general) were literally used by other races to oppress minorities, it makes sense that white people cant say it. i got bullied pretty badly for 6 years. Can A Bi Or Pan Person Say The F Slur? 🏽rat 🏽 09/06/20. When we take the word away from the people who used it to hurt us, we take away the word's. So I can't reclaim it. bo was called faggot alot as a kid, and he doesn't use the slur to make fun of people or to make gay people out as the butt of the joke. Some gay people might feel comfortable saying it, and that’s fine, just don’t do it in public. I don’t get why people would think only gay men should be able to say it either. LGBT people do NOT commonly use f-g/f-ggot as a way to self-identify. ex: mocking a homophobe that was rude to me/someone else, singing a lyric, using it when discussing lgbtq+ history, etc. And that word is primarily used as a slur against men who have sex with men. Personally I don't say it at all becausse I just don't like the word, but what is your opinon on who should be able to say it?. People are attempting to 'reclaim' the words by taking the power away from them. These cultural "woke" heroes are no. Historically, the F slur has predominantly targeted queer men. Queer as a Slur. f*ggy enough to be called it, apparently you make very good points! thanks for your response. Same way it would make sense to me to say “cishet can’t say X word” by that logic, but not a lot a of sense to say “ lgbtq people can’t say unless they are from X group” when it’s a word. That doesn’t make it ok, but the word is far more nuanced than ‘straight people can’t say it’ as it’s used as an insult to lots of people at. ” February 18, 2019: “But bisexual is more specific in that it refers to someone who is interested in both men and women. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. If gay men are comfortable using it, then gay women should also be fine using it as long as both people in the relationship are okay with it. • 2 yr. cape cod jobs craigslist, lucy li whitebox
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I personally can’t stand the slur, even when ‘reclaimed’ or repeated by a Queer person. I just got banned from the YBA discord for saying the f slur. You can't reclaim something that's never been used against you. Aug 2, 2017 · 4. Dyke “Dyke” is the most widely known lesbian slur, one many gay women have embraced. Straight males or men, Tne living proof of this is from a guy called brewster on the internet, pretty much suck a dick is so offensive to straight guys that they would literally get into a fight or say the f word to other males which is absurd and its literally just another word for something bad to happen to them word. Even straight people can pull it off with enough finesse. Well, definitely, too little. Like I use "t ranny " with some fellow trans people who have also reclaimed the word, it doesn't bother us and it adds empowerment and validation to our conversations. F-slur was a rude word to talk about gay stuff or feminine men, but the q-slur was what was used when someone gets bashed. The "spaz" word being a slur is nothing more than more pathetic gate keeping tactics. what he doesn’t have the right to do is use it around another queer person that hasn’t made it explicitly clear that they’re okay with that kind of language. [1] [2] In American youth culture around the turn of the 21st century, its meaning extended as a broader reaching insult more related to masculinity and group power structure. Yes, of course. I’ve definitely had that word used against me as a slur by openly bisexual women who only publicly dated men (basically as a way to say they were more attractive and feminine than me) and honestly those women imo gave up their opportunity to “reclaim” anything and have it be authentic when they used it. A 2000 issue of Bi Women: The Newsletter of the Boston Bisexual Women’s Network says, “many people assume that because bi women are also interested in men that they all would be femmes. The reality is sad but true: "Faggot” is, and has often been, used to describe LGBTQ2S+ people negatively, particularly the feminine ones. thank you for your time, penis man. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. It's a shitty slur and most trans people hate it. I didn’t even do or say anything, I stepped into an elevator and when I stepped out they yelled after me and called me a faggot. - You look like a faggot! - Ye, he looks like a girl, fucking faggot !. | 08/02/17 21 Words the Queer Community Has Reclaimed (and Some We Haven't) If you want to ignite a group of LGBTQ folks, bring up the subject no one wants to talk about. A cheater is a cheater. It was a discussion I had. I've also been called the D-slur, but I am not a lesbian or WLW, I can't reclaim that word. The word has never been used to refer to people. But when I'm alone, or with someone who is either 1000000% an ally or is queer and also uses the slur for themselves, then I'll say it a lot more liberally. We do not fall under that category, so I don’t think we should use it, nor do we have the right to reclaim it, since we are not the victims of that word. Just called the f slur for the first time. 9K subscribers in the adultsnew community. Where I grew up the q-slur was much worse than the f-slur. Everyone’s experience with their own gender is unique, and because of this there are so many ways to be, and to express. can aro/aces say the f-slur. but mainly these. no hate tho, its just ive never seen a wlw/nblw get called the slur, but tiktok comments have said that everyone in the community can say the slur and majority agree. But gay men have given the word a new meaning. This doesn't need to be discussed and answered on a large public subreddit. 1 Against men. Some people in the LGBT community claim that it's okay for bi/gay men (and ONLY bi/gay men) to say "f-g" as a way of trying to "reclaim" the word. i've seen SO many people on tiktok saying wlw/nblw can say the f slur and it genuinely confuses me. Yes, I am a lesbian. 52 votes · Voting has ended. [deleted] OP •. The replies were mixed. But the next ideal is any trans people who has been victimized by it. The history behind the slur: Homosexuals used to be burned at the stakes. One of the most important things we can do is stop thinking of these as disgraceful and start thinking about how these words can encompass queer identities that orientation labels like "gay," "lesbian," and "transgender" can't cover. And I don’t think the f-slur has been or can be reclaimed like “queer”. Otherwise, I will see you as homophobic. There’s no end to the mess that comes with each new season of Love is Blind, and now accusations of homophobic and transphobic comments are plaguing two of season four’s participants. Yes, but also, be careful. I hate how it is so normalized now for "lgbt" people my age to "jokingly" say slurs all the time. But when I'm alone, or with someone who is either 1000000% an ally or is queer and also uses the slur for themselves, then I'll say it a lot more liberally. A "faggot” in the United Kingdom often referred to a traditional dish of meatballs made from pig organs or used to describe a bundle of sticks. The best community for LGBT+ members to meet and connect!. NFL NBA Megan Anderson Atlanta Hawks Los Angeles Lakers Boston Celtics Arsenal F. no hate tho, its just ive never seen a wlw/nblw get called the slur, but tiktok comments have said that everyone in the community can say the slur and majority agree. I can't enjoy homophobic pop singers. No. Just telling your boyfriend that f*g bothers you because it's also a slur against grsm people, should be enough. A 2000 issue of Bi Women: The Newsletter of the Boston Bisexual Women’s Network says, “many people assume that because bi women are also interested in men that they all would be femmes. You should really never use the f-slur, no matter who you are. He’s 100% not transphobic. Remove it from your vocabulary. ” Despite the idea that bisexuals were merely and unwillingly “lumped in” with gay people, they often adopted such identities intentionally, whether to. I am a lesbian, I know "runs in the family" haha. This includes any lying or deceit. Its often kind of a person by person basis when it comes to slurs. A 2000 issue of Bi Women: The Newsletter of the Boston Bisexual Women's Network says, "many people assume that because bi women are also interested in men that they all would be femmes. gay, bisexual, and transgender people who consent to participate in a safe space. " SquelchyRex • 2 yr. Yes, some of their songs use the f-slur, but I believe they’ve stated before that they didn’t mean it in a homophobic way, and that they regret using it. idiot: HEY YOU F4GG0T!!. (Even though some may say it shouldn't be said at all) That slur I think is specifically for individuals that experience same gender attraction, not the queer community overall. You can't reclaim something that's never been used against you. I once read some Tumblr post that claimed the bundle of sticks were for burning because of gay. Biphobia is prejudice, fear or hatred directed toward bisexual people. So basically I’ve been called both the f-slur and the d-slur and i probably still will in future, but I can’t reclaim either one of those because I’m not a guy, so I can’t say the f-slur and I’m also not a lesbian, so I can’t say the d-slur. I wouldn't say that being queer gives you the right to say the f-slur. These cultural "woke" heroes are no. Slurs: everyone or no one. Back when there were no laws to protect gay people, they were hunted and murdered. i've seen SO many people on tiktok saying wlw/nblw can say the f slur and it genuinely confuses me. A safe space for GSRM (Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minority) folk to discuss their lives, issues, interests, and passions. Most of Carlin’s words seem less shocking today. But I personally don’t think anyone should say it. Faggot, often shortened to fag in American usage, is a term, usually a pejorative, used to refer to gay men. Get App. Some gay people might feel comfortable saying it, and that’s fine, just don’t do it in public. I’d ask what anyone really wants to accomplish by saying the f slur. Members Online. The legal strategy is sometimes used by perpetrators of violent crimes as a means of mitigating their actions. Where I grew up the q-slur was much worse than the f-slur. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. 00 EDT. While there's no right or wrong answer, it's important to be mindful of how using it can impact bi folks. While this feeling of inadequacy is common, they say, “You don’t have to worry, sweetie, if you’re queer, you’re queer enough. Members Online. People are attempting to 'reclaim' the words by taking the power away from them. A polyamorous woman phoned to say she’d been seeing a man. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Soldier Adora finds a magic sword -- and her identity as legendary hero She-Ra. It’s a slur. In this way, it’s different to the ‘n’ word which is never used at a white person. 1 Against men. (Even though some may say it shouldn't be said at all) That slur I think is specifically for individuals that experience same gender attraction, not the queer community overall. This kid said the f slur before he was given the pass. Anti-Gay Slurs Not Targeted Just at Gay Men. I mean, only if you're talking about yourself, really. No one should say it. It's hard to define swear words/insults without using swears/insults!. Some people are saying only gay guys, some are saying only gay and bi guys, and some are saying that everyone apart of the lgbt community can say it. Every year, Pride Month is held in June to commemorate the. A safe space for GSRM (Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minority) folk to discuss their lives, issues, interests, and passions. But gay men have given the word a new meaning. Gostaríamos de exibir a descriçãoaqui, mas o site que você está não nos permite. As a person who was frequently taunted for being gay as a kid growing up in Appalachia, who was himself called the "f-slur" too many times to count, you might be surprised to learn. Edit, since you guys are idiots I was already muted, perma muted I had to appeal, which I didn’t, I woke up and found out I got banned for saying the f slur I didn’t say it, and I physically couldn’t of since I’ve been muted. bo was called faggot alot as a kid, and he doesn't use the slur to make fun of people or to make gay people out as the butt of the joke. there is this boy in my class that is straight but demi-romantic. Yes, bisexual people really do exist, but they aren't any more -- or less -- promiscuous, monogamous, or indecisive than anyone else. Biphobia is prejudice, fear or hatred directed toward bisexual people. LGBT slang, LGBT speak, queer slang, or gay slang is a set of English slang lexicon used predominantly among LGBTQ+ people. assuming that men lose their masculinity by liking other men. • 3 yr. Some gay people might feel comfortable saying it, and that’s fine, just don’t do it in public. Jun 5, 2017 · There are a handful of people that say that "fag" doesn't need to be reclaimed because it's always been a word to inflict harm upon gay people and should just be left behind. I'd say men and women who are into the same sex can reclaim it (whether bi or homo). People (including me) just used it like any other insult, at the time i didn't even know what it meant. ex: mocking a homophobe that was rude to me/someone else, singing a lyric, using it when discussing lgbtq+ history, etc. Personally, as a bi man, I don't like hearing it. 's Sunday Times. I mean, only if you're talking about yourself, really. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. I don’t think anyone should say it honestly. yeah, the slur is used against bisexuals, too. . v2rayng config free